Archive for April, 2009

Song recommendation

April 18, 2009

“Devil” – Standfast

http://www.last.fm/music/Standfast/_/Devil

Devil’s in my bed
And now he’s begging me to spread my legs

Please come again, son

Don’t you understand
You were not meant to end up in despair

I can’t help myself

I thought it was enough to
To make his gun go off and shoot me right through

I’m eating all I can now
Straight off the devil’s hand/?

And what a thing to do

Lust can blind your eyes
And when you run your fingers down my spine

And when you run your fingers down my spine

Clearly took the bait
And now I give more than I care to take

Must be a price to pay

I thought it was enough to

To make his gun go off and shoot me right through

I’m eating all I can now
Straight off the devil’s hand

And what a thing to do

Oh yeah, hell yeah,
Oh yea-eah-eah, Oh no-ho-ho

Oh yeah, hell yeah,
Oh yea-eah-eah, Oh no-ho-ho

[repeat]

(The devil doesn’t beg. But the song is interesting anyway. Let me know if you understand the missing and ambiguous parts. I couldn’t find the lyrics on the web elsewhere.)

Sex as continuation of conflict

April 15, 2009

Sex to a woman is the continuation of conflict by other means.

“And everywhere you came and left,
You came in the name of love and,
Left a wake of happiness and tenderness,
And sweet conflict, sweet conflict.”

– “Everywhere” by Bran Van 3000

“Sweet conflict” – a woman speaking, quite clearly.

Loving by nature

April 15, 2009

Women are loving by nature.

They will give you anything you want, unless you need it.

And they will never hurt you, unless they can.

(If they can, they will tend to hurt you yes – but not intentionally, just inadvertently: by losing interest. Male vulnerability – except in small controlled doses – is unattractive to them. This is something they have no control over and cannot be reasonably held accountable for.)

Collaborative txt gaming (CTG)

April 4, 2009

I’d like to propose a collaborative approach to attracting our flirts and lovers with cell texts and emails: collaborative txt gaming.

When txt-gaming a girl, cc your wing. This way your wing can (1) learn from you, (2) give you feedback on your approach, and (3) suggest txts for you to use.

Your wing’s greater emotional distance affords him a wider perspective of the dynamic and a calmer appreciation of the situation. His distance also allows him to suggest riskier (and thus potentially much more attractive) game — which might be hard for you to even imagine as you are caught in a given state of the game.

Conversely, you will enjoy and learn from your wing’s txt game, and you will guide and inspire him in return.

Is your lover worthy of commitment?

April 4, 2009

Before considering to elevate a woman to long-term lover status, I suggest a test of her commitment-worthiness: Have one of your friends pretend to be a stranger and beat you up in public, only to hit on her while you are lying on the floor. See how she reacts. Take her home and have sex with her. Check for any diminution of her passion for you.

If she disgustedly rejects your friend and passionately attends to you afterward, she’s worthy.

Otherwise, oh well: she’s only human. She responded to you the way you would to her gaining 50 pounds. She’s still gamable and you should be game — but she is not commitment worthy.